MASTER
ivorce
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COACH &
MCKENZIE FRIEND SERVICES
LOUISE NEVILLE
Putting child welfare and
best interests first
Lonely, Daunting, Exhausting
Divorce can be all of these things. Throw a difficult ex into the mix who has a "win at all costs" attitude and it can be hell on earth. I get it. Don't go through this journey alone.
Family Court Survival is here for you.
I AM BEING TAKEN TO COURT BY MY DIFFICULT EX AND I DON’T KNOW WHERE TO START...
I can help you make sense of your personal situation and guide you to making the best decisions to get the best possible outcome for you and your children.
EMOTIONAL, PRACTICAL AND STRATEGIC SUPPORT INCLUDED.
ASSOCIATIONS
FAMILY FORUM MEMBER
There is no one size fits all solution, which is why you need a specialist Divorce Coach in your corner
DO YOU WANT TO:
LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR EX EFFECTIVELY
Gain control of your emotions while becoming stronger and more resilient
Get the best possible outcome for you and your family
BOOK AN APPOINTMENT
THAT’S WHERE I COME IN
Hello, I’m Louise
AND I know what you’re going through
Founder of Family Court Survival
Accredited Master Divorce & Break Up Coach / McKenzie friend
Specialising in the intricate dynamics of divorcing from a difficult person. My job involves equipping you with the tools you need to navigate your way through what can often seem like a very daunting, overwhelming and not to mention expensive journey.
Child welfare is my priority and I am only too aware of post separation abuse and tactics used by a difficult person in relation to children. I help you understand their behaviours, assist in effective communication, aid you in getting clarity, enabling you to make informed decisions rather than reactive, emotional and potentially damaging ones.
I understand the tactics of a difficult person, the twisting of events, outright lies, false allegations, threats and controlling behaviours. I guide you through documenting behaviours and highlighting to the Court in the most effective way.
Family Court Survival is a safe space that offers essential emotional, practical and organisational support. either to you as a litigant in person, or as part of your support team alongside legal representatives.
I set up family court survival to help people facing Family Court, specifically with a difficult ex. I offer emotional, practical and organisational support to help you:
- Make the right decisions
- Communicate effectively
- Use legal time wisely
- Get the best possible outcome for you and your family
SUPPORTING YOU THROUGH FAMILY COURT
Louise has spoken at The Royal Courts of Justice in their annual debate and was a keynote speaker at this years Royal Justice Council on "Trauma in the Family Court".
She is also a member of the Cafcass Family Forum, assisting in making improvements to the work they do with children and families.
She’s been there... and done that .
MY STORY
I spent almost a decade of my life in what was originally labelled a "high-conflict" Family Court case. It took many years for professionals to recognise the reality. I qualified as a Master Divorce Coach and McKenzie friend, which has given me the opportunity to help people like you, find light at the end of the tunnel, something I once thought wasn’t possible.
I truly wish I’d known about divorce coaching as I now know it would’ve reduced my financial outlay and given me guidance and emotional support all the way. I had to deal with never ending allegations and accusations. The emails from his solicitors were overbearing and never ending and involvement of numerous professionals and court advisories was soul destroying. It was relentless! It took me 6 years to learn how to handle my case.
I don't want anyone else in this situation to journey the long way.
I learnt the hard way BUT I got clarity, took back my control, understood what was required and succeeded in getting the best possible outcome for our situation.
WHAT IS A DIVORCE COACH?
A divorce coach is a personal mentor, offering support and guidance to suit your specific situation. We assist you to get clarity and make the best decisions. We provide a range of emotional, practical and organisational support with the aim of getting the best possible outcome for you and your family.
YOU NEED A BETTER WAY TO APPROACH
THIS CONSTANT BATTLE
YOU’VE COME TO THE RIGHT PLACE
MY CLIENTS CHOOSE TO WORK WITH ME FOR A NUMBER OF REASONS:
THEY ARE STRUGGLING WITH LEGAL COSTS
THEIR CHILDREN HAVE BECOME UNHAPPY DUE TO ALL OF THE CONFLICT
THEY’RE EXHAUSTED FROM ALL OF THE FALSE ALLEGATIONS BEING MADE AGAINST THEM
THEY NEED GUIDANCE AND SUPPORT FROM A PROFESSIONAL WHO CAN RELATE TO WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH
SERVICES
Personal Divorce Coaching (packages include access to me via Whatsapp as additional support)
Tools and techniques to help reduce the overwhelm, stress & worry and to regain control
Understanding and help on dealing with a difficult ex
Guidance through family court / child issues / allegations and accusations by your ex
Issues with contact / child upset / CAFCASS involvment
Correspondance support with solicitors and ex’s
MCKENZIE FRIEND
What is a Mckenzie friend?
BOOK AN APPOINTMENT
My clients get to learn from my vast personal and professional experience, getting meaningful results while feeling increasingly confident and in control.
No more overwhelming uncertainty.
No more feeling paralysed, wondering how to respond or what step to take next.
I’m here to help.
The term 'McKenzie friend', is a formally accepted legal term, incorporated in statutory instruments and official judicial guidance.
Nowadays the term covers people who generally help a Litigant in Person throughout the course of his/her litigation. This includes help with completing application forms, with correspondence, with devising strategies, with the preparation of statements, as well as undertaking the traditional aspect of accompanying the litigant to court.
WORK WITH ME
Hi, I’m Louise
I’m a fully accredited Divorce and Break-Up Coach with a passion for helping others to get through challenging times and come out the other side stronger and happier. I will walk every part of the divorce path with you, providing you with support and guidance in a structured yet sensitive approach.
I understand that situations can abruptly arise which is why I can provide a range of organisational and motivational support with understanding and empathy.
Don’t face your difficult ex / court journey alone.
HOW CAN I HELP?
I can guide you to making better, rational, child focused decisions
I help you get clarity and focus on the important aspects of your case
I can assist you with helpful communication and negotiation
I can help you decrease conflict, even when the other party doesn’t want to
My expertise is family court with a difficult ex, dealing with false allegations and child contact issues
HOW WE WORK
Together
The Next steps
BOOK
A FREE
DISCOVERY
CALL
TOGETHER WE WILL CREATE A PLAN
MOVE FORWARD WITH SUPPORT, CONFIDENCE & CLARITY
WHY CHOOSE A
DIVORCE COACH?
You have a controlling ex and don’t know where to turn next. Your head is spinning
You are struggling with out of control legal costs and you’re getting nowhere in court
You are overwhelmed by the legal process, the constant emails, upset and stress
Your children are upset, you have child contact issues and are facing false allegations
BOOK AN APPOINTMENT
Client Testimonials
SUCCESS STORIES
Emma, Belfast
"When I found myself in the unfortunate position of being involved in the Family Court process, Louise's experience and expertise was invaluable. It was amazing to know that someone was always on my side, but she would also tell me the truth and how best to represent myself in Court. The Family Court is a minefield and with Louise's help, I felt empowered to navigate it successfully."
BF, London
"Going through Family Court, there were so many times when I felt alone. afriad and like no one in the world understood me.
That was until I met Louise. Louise reassured me, guided me and understood me like no one I’d ever met. Louise gave me words of encouragement and motivation and changed my entire perspective on matters. We talked through everything as a team and I always felt supported. Louise was always available to talk to, even at the most difficult times, Louise showed me light at the end of the tunnel."
AD, Cotswolds
"I really enjoyed my sessions with Louise. She has excellent knowledge of the divorce process and was able to approach the subject from a very different way I have a conversation with my solicitor which I needed. It was a very open conversation - I thought we could discuss anything freely, honestly and in confidence, and I really valued the time Louise gave me. It felt like talking to a friend but there wa no bias - she was just reliable, genuinely interested and supportive. Louise gave me helpful pointers on next steps and areas I could go away and research and think about. Thank you so much."
JF, Sussex
“Louise came into my life by chance, at what was the perfect time. I had a family court hearing approaching which was causing me overwhelming stress and anxiety. I'd had advice from solicitors who appeared to just want my money, and lots of it. Louise listened to me, took on my case within a matter of days, and fully prepared me for what was the most difficult few months of my life. Louise gave me all the advice and support i needed, and despite me knowing how busy she is, she made me feel like I was her only client, her priority, which really helped and reassured me that my case was in the right hands.
In Court, after us presenting my case, which was prepared by Louise, the case against me was flipped on it's head and thrown out of Court, a result that, even with all of Louise's amazing support, I was not expecting Louise, you haven't just delivered an outstanding service, you have changed my life for the better, something i'll remember for the rest of my life.
From me, and my beautiful children, thank you again. You are very talented at what you do, and needless to say, I would highly recommend you to anyone who could benefit from your skills.”
BC
“After a difficult period in a long marriage I had to come to terms with our separation and the effect it was to have to our children. Through a divorce Coaching website I was put in touch with Louise to help me through my pain and anxiety. Our 1-2-1 sessions took me from literally falling apart to being
in a place where I could begin to move forward. With practical coping strategies and advice on preparing for difficult conversations, Louise guided me through at every stage. I am so grateful and I certainly wouldn’t be where I am now without her help. Thank you.”
ANNONYMOUS
My goal has finally been reached for our children with the help of wonderful Louise! Not only has Louise been so amazing and supportive throughout my family court survival sessions, she
quickly became my rock and “go-to”! I was feeling extremely anxious ahead of my final hearing in the family court. Louise made me feel at ease and never showed any disbelief in me she gave
me so much advice and oozed positivity in whatever I suggested and held my hand in how to conduct myself in the fearful witness box. I went into the court feeling calm and confident. I could not have achieved the result I did for my children without Louise’s advice and training. Thank you, so much - the judge believed me and read the situation so well. Louise - I will never forget the help you gave me - and will continue to keep in touch as I am sure my journey is not over yet! x
SM
Louise has been amazing in helping me deal with a high conflict divorce. Her understanding of both mental health and the legal process is incredibly valuable, and enabled her to guide me through some really tough times.
From our first call, Louise helped me in managing the anxiety I was facing from dealing with my controlling and bullying ex, and made simple recommendations which had a huge positive impact on my mental wellbeing.
As my case progressed to court, despite knowing I just had to tell the truth, I found the process incredibly daunting. Louise guided me through it, helping me prepare mentally and supported me in building the confidence I needed to stand strong and fight for a fair outcome. Louise made herself available whenever I needed support, meaning I never had to wait long when I was worried about something.
I would highly recommend Louise to anyone facing a high conflict divorce.
KR
I first met Louise little over 2 years ago. My situation was that i had lost myself completely and trying to cope with caring for a young baby while in receipt of a mountain of false allegations made through family court applications by my ex partner.
I was scared, desperate and in despair at how the sheer level of lies made by my ex could escalate to the level they did. Of how false documents and technology were not authenticated by professional services leaving vulnerable women like myself and many others exposed and needing a life line.
I believe in God and I believe that Louise was an angel sent in human form to aid me threw my situation and protect my little boy from being taken away from the completely fabricated evidence and false narrative. My help could not come from the legal system or the authorities whose purpose it was as the system itself is corrupted to scrutinise both parties and this further alienated me and isolated me.
I am a Christian and I believe in God. In my life i do my best to walk a righteous path. I believe God sends angels in human form.
God sent Louise, an angel to be my voice when I had none or when anything I did say came out like babble because my brain was completely bamboozled by the Narcissistic Abuse i had suffered.
You need someone to be there, she will be
You need someone to understand without speaking, she hears you.
You need clarity and way forwards she will show you.
You do not need solicitors. You need God, you need Louise and you need to stand up for yourself and fight.
This will be the way for change.
Praise God for you Louise
Keep up the amazing work you do. You are not only saving parents from the Narcissistic world we live in but the next generation of children from it.
KR
DID YOU KNOW?
You don’t have to use a solicitor to divorce. You may not need to use one at all. And if you do instruct a solicitor I’m confident you can use them more effectively than you are now. So you’ll save thousands of pounds.
But it’s not just about the money. When you take charge of your divorce you put the power back in your hands. What would it feel like to make the right decisions for your divorce, backed up with the support you so desperately need?
Just think what that will do for your confidence.
Are you ready to save money and step into your power?
One day you will tell your story of what you went through and it'll become someone else's survival guide
get in touch
Let’s talk.
Your first discovery call is free!
During this time, I’m sure there are hundreds of questions going through your mind. I am here to answer those questions for you and make the whole process as simple and hassle - free as possible.
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WHY CHOOSE
FAMILY COURT SURVIVAL?
I understand the system
I understand the behaviour of a difficult ex
I understand what is necessary and what isn’t
I understand your position, I have lived it - I get it
I understand when you don’t need to reply
I understand the child’s rights and wishes
I understand your emotions, fears and frustrations
I AM HERE
I feel so strongly that nobody should go through Family Court without the empathy, emotional support and guidance that I never had. My personal experience has given me first hand understanding of the process; and my professional training as a Master Break up and Divorce Coach, has consolidated my knowledge about the tools and techniques required to help you survive and thrive on this journey. I fill that huge gap betweenn your best friend and your legal team. I am here for you.
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